Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Expectationss....leadin to disappointments.....

Throughout my life tll now..one thing which i hav experienced n learned is dat Nvr Expect Anything From Anyone. Its mainly coz ppl come n go.. mstly we leave behind our skul frnds wen we get cllg frnds..n den graduate level frnds n den it goes on...but some do saty wid us in our journey .But y is it tht in dis journey of lyf we expect sumthng frm ppl around us?Expectations can b anythng..it can be love , care ,materialistic things etc etc...but y do we expect wen v knw dat d more we expect the more we r opening ourselves to being dissapointed. Expecting someone to do something that doesn't happen often leads to huge conflicts. Relationships, for egs, are often filled with such unfulfilled expectations.                
                                          We all do expect some or odr thing in our day to day lives..may b frm ppl close 2 us or may b frm an unknwn person.For eg :  we expect our bst frnd to b wid us all the tym...may b dats not possible for him/her....or it can be just dat we expect a pizza order to arrive asap and wen such expectations r not met a part of our wrld seems to fall apart.


                                                    So the best way to be happy n contented is not to expect anything frm nyone..it is rytly said by Fredrick Perls dat "I do my thing and you do yours. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, then it is beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.





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